Writer: Waqar Ahmad Waqar


 
 Success and its principles

 Seven days of hard work, study of four or five books and the essence of fifteen years of experience.

 Success:

 Every human wants to be successful in life and he works hard day and night to achieve success, but according to many people, success is the achievement of a set goal with hard work and honesty. Both failure and success are part of human life. Success for a doctor is if he is a competent doctor and many patients come to him for treatment, then he is successful, success for a lawyer is that he does not lose any case. While the success for a teacher is that his teaching method is different from all others, then we can say that success in the world is taken in different ways.


 Success is called "Najjah" in Arabic, while in Persian it is called "Pirozi", which means something like achieving the goal for which the object is made, for example, in ancient times, leather. Cloth was made to cover the body with the purpose of hiding the body then man progressed and cloth was made from thread and it fulfilled the purpose of hiding the body. Then the purpose for which the umbrella was made was fulfilled.



 There are different meanings of success in the world. Some people consider wealth as success, while some people consider gaining power as success. Think about success. Success is like a fruitful tree which needs the best seed to grow. But success is not only car, bungalow, money and position, but achieving your goal with ethics and sincerity. If If your conscience and self are not satisfied, then you are not a successful person, but if your conscience and self are satisfied, then you are actually successful. He was famous while he ruled the hearts of people for decades and was called the king of the stage. He committed suicide in 2014 and was addicted to cocaine because he was suffering from depression. He surprised the world that so much. Despite the wealth and fame, he took his own life. In this world, wealth and fame are not only success, but conscience and self. Being satisfied is also success.
Just as the colors of the sky keep changing, sometimes black clouds appear and sometimes the sky is completely clear, in the same way the seasons keep changing, sometimes spring, sometimes autumn, sometimes hot and cold. All the leaves fade away and no flowers remain, but sometimes flowers are flowers and leaves are leaves. Similarly, there is a human being for whom the meaning of success keeps changing. When he is a child, he considers getting toys as success. And then when he gets a little older, he considers progress in the field of education as success, and then when he gets married, he believes that the real purpose of life is to have a spouse, and thus he believes that real success is In the expansion of employment and employment. But then he considers educated children, a big house and a big car as success, and when old age comes, a person considers health and health and avoiding diseases as success. Along with that, the meaning of success keeps changing.


The meaning of success for parents is that they want to educate their children in good institutes and they want every wish of their children to be fulfilled and their children get good positions by studying in big institutes. And then after studying they get big positions in different institutions and after getting big positions, they get married in a big house and then they have a nice car and have a big bungalow in the eyes of their parents as if this is success. In the eyes of children, success means providing them with every facility and not being held back by anything, and having all the comforts of the world available to them without being inconvenienced by anything. The meaning of success in the minds of children is the same as in the minds of parents.

 Once a man asked Socrates what success is. Socrates replied, "Come with me and I will tell you." So he took the man to a river and took his hand and got down and walked in the water. When the water reached his throat, Socrates grabbed the man and plunged him into the water and held him under the water. When the man stopped breathing, he began to thrash his hands and feet. When he regained his breath, Socrates asked him why he was doing this, he replied that my breath had stopped, I was doing it to save my life. Socrates smiled and said, "That's it." Success is when you get what you want no matter what it is.

Also nothing is impossible in the world if you want success in any field you can get success as a teacher asked the students in the classroom what do you want to be. Someone said that I want to be a pilot, someone said I want to be a doctor, someone said I want to be a lawyer. Finally, a student asked the teacher that you asked us what we want to be and if I asked you what do you want to be besides teaching, so the teacher replied that I want to be the president of the United States. Hearing this, the classroom erupted with laughter and all the students started laughing that you and the United States. President. The same teacher became the President of America twice and his name is Barack Obama. So nothing is impossible in the world if you have dedication and passion to succeed.

 Success Principles:

 When 91% of people in the world were asked about the reason for their success, they did not give any specific reason for their success, as if they were unaware of their success because they were successful but did not know how they became successful and they were so successful. How did you get the logic?
 Success is never achieved by accident, while according to psychology, success is a science. According to Harvard University's research, success is not only achieved by high degree, education and intelligence, and the role of these things in success is only 15%, but it is positive in success. The role of attitude is 85%. While according to Stanford University, the role of "IQ" in success is very little. According to me, three things play a role in success, including ability, positive attitude and thinking ability. When positive thinking Or if positive attitude is 50% while ability and thinking ability is 25%, then success is possible. According to Thomas Corley, positive thinking has an important role in success.

 Only your "Attitude" can make you successful One day I was watching a movie on mobile in which a disabled person comes for an interview he was asked many questions like why your marks are so low. replied that I was from a middle class family my father was sick and my sister was not married due to poverty so I was afraid of what would happen to them if I failed and those who are afraid of failure He never succeeds and started praying to God to give this, give that, but when sixteen bones were broken, he got a chance to think and understood. Today I folded my hands in front of God and did not say that give me a job, but also thanked for this life and came here. Even if you do not give me a job, I will not have any doubts and I will have something to live. I will do it. The interviewer says that you are a "straight forward" person and we need a "diplomatic" person and if you change your "attitude", something can happen. That you keep your job and I keep my "attitude" then the interviewer was surprised to see this thing and gave him the job.